Who Will Believe, So that Kids Can Achieve? Guest Post by Hilary Bilbrey
May 25th, 2010 by El Ed Mom
“Mrs. B., I hope you have a daughter, because you have already raised a son.” With tears in my eyes and a hand on my eight-month pregnant belly, I hugged my student as he got ready to walk the graduation line. It is statements like those that make me glad I became a teacher. The first day I set foot in a classroom, I knew that I was truly born to teach teens. For the first time in my life, I felt …home.
The young man who I quoted above came from a broken home. Although he had a wonderful mom, she had to work around the clock to make ends meet. When I first met him, he was so angry and had such a chip on his shoulders. I realized that until we could break through his frustration, English Lit was about the last thing he would be learning. So I became a mentor, a friend and a tough teacher. I had high expectations, but made sure there was always a soft place to land. He knew he could not get away with anything less than his very best, and he delivered. All he asked for in return, was that I believe in him. This relationship has forever changed my heart for the better, as have the relationships I have had with so many of my students. I know that I had a small part in making them better citizens in this world.
Now I am afraid. I am afraid for tomorrow’s children. We are facing a National crisis in our education system. Our funding is literally disappearing and as a result, so are our teachers and mentors. With 35-45 students in my classroom, would I have time to connect with students like this? Of course not… so who would? We are in danger of losing over 150,000 of our teachers if action is not taken, and quickly. If you are moved, even a little by this story…or have one of your own, don’t sit by and watch as we lose good teachers…or worse…we let kids miss an opportunity to have a mentor truly believe in them.
So what can you do? Learn and then Act! To become more educated on the issues, please read http://www.educationvotes.nea.org. If you are as concerned as I am, tell your elected officials; I did! It is an easy process, just follow this link: http://bit.ly/8ZBh8M. They will be voting soon on the Education Jobs Fund, which could release money to schools this summer and save the jobs of tens of thousands of teachers. And if you are so inclined, Tweet your opinions with the hash tag #EducationJobsFund. I have felt so helpless to make a difference lately, but I know we can speak as one voice and do what is right for our kids. Join me…please.
Hilary
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